NOBODY PUTS THEIR PENIS INSIDE M. SHADOWS (saintawesome) wrote in fatshionista,
2008-03-05 15:47:00
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Yacht Club Attire?

I need your guys' wise advice.

My sister is getting married next month, and I need a dress for the rehearsal dinner. No problem, right? Well, the problem is her inlaws-to-be are having the rehearsal dinner at a yacht club, and the invitation specifies "Yacht Club Attire". What is yacht club attire, and where can I find it in bigger sizes?

I'm 5'11, usually wear a size 18 or 20 (closer to a 20 lately :/ ), and I really can't afford to spend more than about $100. Any ideas? I really don't have any plus-size stores close by, so it would have to be on the internet. Thanks in advance!
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goodbadgirl

March 6 2008, 00:02:40 UTC 5 years ago

A life vest and a martini?


I am stumped. :)


However, you definitely need to post pics with whatever you decide to go with! Hee...

tootsicle

March 6 2008, 03:14:56 UTC 5 years ago

ROFL... same thought here...

scratch_bc

5 years ago

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3speed

5 years ago

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sometimesdee

March 6 2008, 00:17:17 UTC 5 years ago Edited:  March 6 2008, 00:19:09 UTC

I think it's super-preppy.

Royal London Yacht Club's selection of clothing seems to fit my theory. Lots of polo/rugby shirts and khakis.

greeneyedtengu

March 6 2008, 00:17:47 UTC 5 years ago

Sundresses spring too mind... Not too formal, not to casual... Umm. Yuppy not formal. AN LBD might work, but not if it's formal or lacy. Business casual is out... the clothes you'd wear if you were going clubbing with your more-conservative mom.

Sorry for the stream of consciousness there, I was taking dictation from my mother. I hope that helps!

badcat42077

March 6 2008, 00:25:41 UTC 5 years ago

I found this: http://www.cbyca.org/Protocol.htm#Uniforms%20and%20Attire

I'm so not a yacht club person that I have no idea if it's any good though. :-/

vfc

March 6 2008, 00:31:18 UTC 5 years ago

I think any dress or outfit that's a little more than casual (but not necessarily formal) would suffice. You might also want to consult with your sister on what her idea of Yacht Club Attire is to be sure.

pinsandbeetles

March 6 2008, 00:34:42 UTC 5 years ago

I'd aim for relatively conservative and ladylike. Nothing terribly bare, aggressive, or funky.

From Chadwicks:





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I'd aim for relatively conservative and ladylike. Nothing terribly bare, aggressive, or funky.

From Chadwicks:

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pinsandbeetles

March 6 2008, 00:38:31 UTC 5 years ago

Sorry! Mods, please feel free to fix!



lindsalicious

March 6 2008, 00:35:57 UTC 5 years ago

I'm thinking something like this...

http://www.oldnavy.com/browse/product.do?cid=7323&pid=550925&scid=550925012

... plus a cardigan, cute shoes and some snappy jewelry. Maybe?

mmemaraschino

March 6 2008, 01:15:51 UTC 5 years ago

I second this. Not to mention, it's pretty cheap, and I'd wear it again!

OP, why don't you ask your sister what she's wearing too?

mujer

5 years ago

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elegyforanangel

March 6 2008, 00:37:25 UTC 5 years ago

I'm thinking maybe LL bean, Gap, Banana Republic type stuff. super prepster. unfortunately, i think the point of this style is that it IS expensive. ew.

shayna_madela

March 6 2008, 00:45:55 UTC 5 years ago

when i think yacht club, i think lily pulitzer.

http://www.lillypulitzer.com/Offerings/Gallery.aspx?seasonID=7bb05c58-588f-4f52-bfd5-f33afd95ae24&lineID=a80e280e-50c2-457a-a4d8-fa1195153bc1

this dress would be perfect:

http://www1.talbots.com/talbotsonline/product/itempage.aspx?item=A121886&PFID=3292&BID=&h=M&sk=M

also:
http://www1.talbots.com/talbotsonline/product/itempage.aspx?item=D46886&PFID=1427&BID=&h=M&sk=M

modysoul

March 6 2008, 01:40:31 UTC 5 years ago

Spot on!

Yacht Club Attire:
Men navy blazers and khaki, or bright green or red pants
Ladies summer tea dresses or summer suits
Lilly Pulitzer dresses and red white and blue is always a good choice


queenofpain33

March 6 2008, 00:48:33 UTC 5 years ago

Yacht club attire sounds fairly preppy to me, but the level of formality could definitely vary. I would ask your sister, but think Ralph Lauren type of look.

I would probably wear:

ralphlauren
but maybe not because of the amount of white

or
title or description

or this with a cute white button-down:
title or description

queenofpain33

March 6 2008, 00:49:58 UTC 5 years ago

Oh, and those are all Lauren by Ralph Lsuren, which they usually have a fair amount of at Macy's and Nordies, so maybe sale racks for a similar look? Anne Klein clothes would also have the sort of preppy look I envision.

pinsandbeetles

March 6 2008, 00:53:18 UTC 5 years ago

More.

All under $100 unless I've included a price:


jjill, $129
Chicos
Chicos, $118. Only if it doesn't show massive cleavage.
Nordstrom
Nordstrom, $138
Nordstrom, $118
Macys, $109

, Macys $158







pinsandbeetles

March 6 2008, 00:54:32 UTC 5 years ago

For a rule of thumb, think about what Charlotte from Sex and the City would wear.

coco73

March 6 2008, 01:03:16 UTC 5 years ago

The very idea of "yacht club attire" simultaneously makes me laugh AND makes my skin crawl! But I wanted to say that your icon is the greatest icon I have seen in weeks!

ailei

March 6 2008, 01:14:58 UTC 5 years ago

That IS like, my favorite kid ever. As far as yacht clubs go...oy. I wish I could help. (Actually, I think the term 'blissfully ignorant' was invented for this topic. *g*) Asking your sister (or even your future in laws?) seems to be the wisest course of action.

wandajune6

March 6 2008, 01:15:54 UTC 5 years ago

I have no real experience with this but it seems like the perfect occasion for a great shirt dress. Or, maybe a great-fitting and gorgeous jersey dress. Something like this from Kiyonna (too expensive, I know but they always have coupons: http://www.kiyonna.com/plus-size-clothing/Dresses/15060201. Other options:

http://www.kiyonna.com/plus-size-clothes/11070104
http://www.kiyonna.com/plus-size-clothing/Dresses/11072421

I'd stay away from black dresses or anything too shiny or frilly. Go for simple, classic, and flattering.

And have fun!

boommonkeypants

March 6 2008, 02:18:38 UTC 5 years ago

As far as I know, phrases like "yacht club attire" apply more to men than women. Many clubs only allow casual dress in certain areas during certain times. In the evening or in more formal locations of the club, men are required to wear slacks, collared shirts, sometimes ties and jackets depending on the club and event.

That said, any conservative, nice dress that you would normally wear to a rehearsal dinner should be appropriate.

If you're still unsure, I agree with the comments to ask your sister. If you're not comfortable doing that, I would also consider calling the club and asking to review their dress code for private events.

heartovmidnight

March 6 2008, 02:34:34 UTC 5 years ago

Honestly, I'd just go with a nice pair of dress pants and a blouse. Be comfy and who you are. Don't get all prepped out if you're not comfortable with it.

happyduck1979

March 6 2008, 03:05:19 UTC 5 years ago

Smart casual. Not tennis club preppy, more, after work drinks at a nice place sort of look.

enchanted_black

March 6 2008, 05:23:43 UTC 5 years ago

When I think yacht attire I think a nice simple dress, very little accessories. Something classy, sophisticated, and elegant yet minimalist. Smart casual as the above poster said.

little_ms_me

March 6 2008, 06:03:08 UTC 5 years ago

no flip flops, no piercings, no baggy old men's plaid golf pants... ;)

i'm thinking back to the summer my best friend worked at a fancy yacht club and i went to visit her (coincidentally on the nights the fireworks were on - they had an awesome view!). those were the things i got glared at for wearing. (luckily, i didn't care, and neither did she)

more seriously, her uniforms were tommy hilfiger - so yes, very preppy, even while teaching sailing. a nice summer dress would be fine, as would a summery skirt (think floral) with a solid top, such as a dressier knit tank or a sweater set. heels, or dressy flats would be standard. the old navy dress is nice if you'd prefer a solid, or else go with one like the lily pulitzer dresses that were linked.

polianarchy

March 6 2008, 15:38:04 UTC 5 years ago

i can't be the only one who immediately thought this:

formletter

March 7 2008, 01:59:04 UTC 5 years ago

Oh please please let someone wear this. And let there be pictures.

polianarchy

5 years ago

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