I bought the Gabi Fresh neon pink fatkini, and it just came in the mail today. I love how it looks on me (pics to come, once I take some!), but the halter hurts if I tie it tight enough for even minimal support.
I'm going to return this one, but I really want a fatkini for the summer. Pretty much all the other ones I've found online are also halters (including the Monif C peacock bikinis, which I've been drooling over forever...so gorgeous!). Has anyone seen any non-halter fatkinis?
- Non-halter fatkinis?
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masslibrulgirl- May 23rd, 18:02
- Body glide
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arwen_lune
- May 23rd, 20:18
I am trying to tackle that whole wearing dresses/skirts & bare legs issue, because I think I'm finally feeling comfortable enough with myself to try to wear them. I ordered Bodyglide and I just put some on and... did they accidentally send me Pritt Stick? I thought this stuff was supposed to make the skin smooth enough to reduce chafing, not stick my thighs together?!
Is the Bodyglide faulty or is this just how it feels and it will still protect me from chafing even though it doesn't seem to reduce friction at all?
- Belly Dancing in the Boston Area -- class forming now!
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- thebostonreader
- May 23rd, 12:20
Hi all, I'm putting together a fat-positive (and possibly allies?) group for a beginning belly dance class with Nadira Jamal, who teaches in Union Square, Somerville. Her Web site is very clear that her classes are open to people of all sizes, but her upcoming intro class wasn't at a time I could do, and I thought I would try and put together a class specifically for fatties.
She has offered me Mondays, 6-7pm starting June 24th, for 10 weeks. The cost would be $140 per student. I need a firm commitment from at least 6 people to hold the class.
If you are interested, please PM me with your email address. Thanks!
- SotS - Swimsuit of the Season!
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- livingluster
- May 23rd, 0:54
Hello wonderful fats!
Another long time follower, first time poster. I made my first trip to the pool in I can't even remember how long today. I mostly just wanted a chance to try out the swimsuit I just got in! I really love it.
The top is this: http://www.swimsuitsforall.com/Chlorine-Resistant-Aquabelle-Blue-Floral-Plus-Size-D D-Cup-Racer-Back-Tankini-Top?p=3149
And the bottom is this: http://www.swimsuitsforall.com/Plus-Size-Black-Brief?p=3646
I picked this specific suit for it's chest coverage and support and I'm definitely happy with those aspects. My old swimsuit was from Target/Merona and the cups were just not big enough for my DDs. It was also my first and last halter top. Oh, my aching neck. This top was offered in regular and DD. I'm wearing the DD and it's quite adequate for the girls. The empire band under the chest is wider than in my old Merona suit and the racer back straps provide nice support. I felt very comfy and secure swimming laps. I've got a trip booked to the beach in a few weeks and I can't wait! Hopefully, I will no longer have to be paranoid about a big wave making me accidentally flash the whole beach.Not to just echo Lesley, but I'm so in love with swimsuitsforall.com . They have such a great selection with designs that are modern and young, much better than what's offered Lands End or any other place I've looked at. The first top I ordered was too big and I had to exchange it for a smaller size. They have free exchange and return shipping, so I only paid the one initial shipping fee. The directions on how to get free return shipping were a little confusing and contradictory in some places, but I called their customer service line and the lady there was super nice and hooked me right up. It was about as painless as online shopping can be.
- ISO swim bottoms or swim shorts, boy-cut or bike-shorts style
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- cappyhead
- May 21st, 19:41
Hi all! I got these swim shorts from Land's End recently, and they are blousier (not a word, I know) than I was expecting. I was hoping for something a little more form-fitting. Does anyone know where I can get something like bike shorts but in swimsuit material? I have cute thighs and want to show them off without having to remove too many hairs. ;) I would probably wear a 16/18 or 1X. Shipping to U.S.is a must, and I've love to pay $30 or less shipped. Thanks!
- My Itsy Bitsy, Teenie Weenie, Navy Elomi Bikini
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- lizjohnson
- May 21st, 9:35
Last week I ordered the Elomi Isis Underwire Swimwear Bra in navy.The estimated time for it to arrive was on Tuesday the 21st, so I figured that it would be okay if I was out and about until Tuesday. Well, I just got home on Tuesday and it seemed that the item had already shipped and was by my door!I ordered the item from Bare Necessities, which accounts for such prompt service.
( Read more for a bikini review...Collapse )
I'll give an update with actual fatkini pictures once I hunt down a bottom to wear with my top.It's going to be a great summer!
- Shirt with Ties...?
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- enveri
- May 20th, 16:04
I firstly want to thank everyone for all the help they provided for my formal events next month. I am super excited, I feel like I am going to be tres glamourous, and... yes. It will be epic and awesome!
However, my girlfriend wants to attend wearing a tie and nice button-down shirt with a formal vest over. We went to Men's Warehouse this past weekend, and... well. The salesman was extremely nice (he was adorable, actually. I don't think they get many fat lesbians in there), and we found a suitable vest and some ties, but we're still stumped for shirts. We're going to go to Casual Male this weekend and see if anything in the Big and Tall section fits her, but I thought I'd ask here and see if anyone has any suggestions.
What we're looking for:
Button down oxford style shirts in white, black, and another bright color (huge bonus if we can find a vibrant purple)*
Button cuffs are perfectly fine
She wears a 26-28-ish top- carries most of her weight in her belly, but her bust is large enough that fitting the vest was... interesting.
We live in the greater Boston Metro area, so we have most of the major chains available. Our trip is at the end of June, so online orders are okay- but we'd prefer a Brick and Mortar so we can ensure fit and don't have to futz with returns.
Thank you in advance!
Note: It is not a requirement that it be a man's shirt- it's just my experience that women's button down shirts don't have collars that are suited to wearing a tie.
- Summertime Interview Clothes
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- kisha
- May 20th, 15:34
Hi all,
I'm in the process of applying to jobs, and having interviews. The weather is warm, and obviously I can't keep my coat on during the interviews. I wanted to purchase a lightweight blazer that's not too expensive (maybe under $60). Problem is, every single store I've been to (online and in-store), all of their jackets and blazers are either:
1. Way too short. Meaning they're damn near cropped up to your boobs.
2. Has a floral print or some kind of embellishments.
3. Are over $60. Way, way over.
All I want is a simple, lightweight, Black (or pinstripe), semi-affordable blazer/jacket that's about 30 inches long. And I'm finding anything BUT that. I understand that florals and stripes and very short tops are all the rage this season, but what about clothing for plain people like me?
If anyone can direct me to a store that has what I'm looking for, I'd greatly appreciate it. I did find something on eBay, but I'd like other options as well in case I don't luck out with eBay again. Thanks!
- About A Dress
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- lizjohnson
- May 18th, 23:29
I have recently been smitten by this item from Simplybe.I have neither ordered from Simplybe nor have I owned an item from Simplybe. I have, however, heard a lot of bad things about their items (Long wait time, cancelled orders, terrible quality, etc.) along with great things (Cute dresses, large sizing (some consider it a fault, but I like things to fit generously), and more importantly: cute dresses!). I am wondering, however, if anyone has this specific dress, or anything like it from Simplybe purchased recently.If they have any warnings or praise, I would really appreciate hearing about it. I give a big thanks to everyone in advance.
- Another non-fatshion Boston-area event: the Fab Fatty Frolic
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- masslibrulgirl
- May 18th, 13:08
Sunday, June 2nd
1-4 p.m. on the Cambridge Common
Let's enjoy our fabulous fat community out in the sun. :)
Fats and allies of all shapes/sizes/ages/backgrounds/genders/ abilities/etc are welcome!
You can find me by my hot pink Hello Kitty blanket. I will also bring various frolicking implements such as a hula hoop, frisbee, and bubbles, as well as FA books to read (and possibly a few to swap). Feel free to bring any frolicking implements, books, snacks, whatever you want.
The Cambridge Common is near Harvard Square on the Red Line.
Rain date = June 23rd.
The Facebook event page is here.
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